In the last little period I have been thinking about a specific chair we currently use for our son and what it represents. As I thought about it I realized it represents history, family, love, joy, sadness, creativeness, learning and even in a way, tragedy. The chair I am talking about is this one.
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Admiring his chair[/caption]
An unassuming baby feeding chair. In modern times many would say, leave it alone, danger, it does not conform to modern standards. Something for the attic or corner in the house. We say, get your bum in son and be part of its story.
The Tragedy
In the late 1800's a horrible fatal accident took place, where a young mother was thrown from a horse and cart with a 3 month old baby boy. The mother died but the baby fell in a bush and was saved. The father gave this boy 3 names, of which 3rd was one of the mother's. This boy was my father's granddad. My father inherited his names. So, before the chair became part of our history, it nearly had another.
Family
My dad, born in 1934, was the first, I know of, who used the chair, as it is said granddad bought it while grandma was pregnant.
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My dad with his sister and yes "
the chair".[/caption]
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Granddad, father and sister before they moved.[/caption]
The chair was used to raise 3 children, it moved with the family from a remote country district to the city, near 800km, due to lack of work. Here the 3rd child was born, and it was stored for later.
About 20 years later my sister was born and out came 'our chair' again to do service in silence to another group of 3 babies, of which I was the youngest.
We spent wonderful times in the chair, similar, I guess, to my father and his siblings. How do I know, mom told me.
In 2013, our son was born and as the first boy with our family name, I inherited the chair and soon after I received it, his bum was in the spot where so many people already sat and had fun, tantrums, food orgies, and whatever else.
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Boeta's first sitting.[/caption]
Still too young at the time, it was just for a picture pose, and my intention was always to use the second part of the chair's magic at about the age we are now (12 months).
Yes, it has a party trick, it can be used as a desk for play and eat in later stages, so when we learn and play we use it and he loves walking and pushing it around.
Why the story?
In relation to this chair, an unassuming chair, if I put my hand on its base, I touch 80 years of history, if I put my ear against it I can imagine countless dinners, hysterical laughter, tapping of toys against it, burps and the many other things that go with putting a baby in such a chair. This is not just an ordinary chair, it is a vital part of our family.
With us another chair was introduced for feeding. The question is if it will stand the 80 year test, being modern, time will tell.
Finally, I would like to say that with chairs same as people, we need to look at them carefully, they might be old, have scratches or bruises, from time spent in service, but they can play such vital roles in our lives as one kind of support or another. They hold stories full of riches and color.
What stories would these chairs have by now?
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Taken round 1930's, maybe earlier.[/caption]
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My dad with his mom on another chair.[/caption]
With this post I would like to congratulate "our chair" on a job well done in raising the children so far and wish "it" the best for the future, may it be a long one! It holds forgotten memories of lives past and present, a reminder of each of our childhoods.
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Dad and sons on celebrating another child in the family![/caption]
